So me and Zero Phoenix are engaged. I talked with him earlier in the day (two days ago now, on his birthday) about how well we get along together and how not many people have what we have.

So instead of being ridiculously female and hinting at no ring being on my finger yet, I said fuck that -- I went out and bought HIM a male engagement ring, and popped the question myself. Ya, I was nervous -- but he said yes. Whooo!